About

Unmatched at 44 is a personal essay project about desire in the age of swiping. It explores what happens when a woman in midlife re-enters the erotic world—not looking for love, but for sensation, agency, and pleasure. These are reflections on appetite and attention, on choosing and being chosen, on how technology mediates intimacy, and how the body remembers what it wants. Curious, candid, and unashamed, Unmatched at 44 is an education in pleasure—one swipe at a time.

AI or cartoon picture of me

Alice, 44

Looking for: 🥂 Short-term, open to long

<1 km away

Not looking for anything serious. Single, no kids, never married, one velcro dog named Winnie.

Let's play ;)

(Design to look like a Tinder profile.)

Names and personal details have been changed for privacy. Based on a mostly true story.